
What are none negotiable this in my life?
These are the things that no matter what happens,who you end up with they wont change because you have found out,they work for you and your like.
1. you should always have day's for your self, Yes we love our partners but we need to get the hell out of the house and hang out with MY friends on my time and do the stuff I like....a breather.
2. Always have a Date with your partner @ least 2 a month , like a getting pretty and going out alone date. This will keep the spark going.
3. Do go out in groups once in a while, Both of us should have plenty of Friends that can be put into a situation and let us all have fun. Its not wise to just forget everyone and concentrate on your partner, it make tension rise real fast.
4. Respect the fact that your partner needs to chill.
5. Do fun activities , like beach, roadtripps,movies, games, sports, traveling even paint something, just don't stick to shopping on your free time.
6. Always look presentable to your partner, none of that he/she loves me crap.
7. Understand he/she line of work, help them out when needed, trust them with decisions and always appreciate the fact that being responsible probably means late hrs.
8. Trust them 100%, you may asked questions and talk things out but at the end of the day trust them.
9. Make the best of a bad situation. I have learned that been mad, and screaming sucks. and just makes it worse. make it work.
10. love,love and love that person and let them know you care .
11. Works things out right away, if not it will come and bit you in the ass later on.
12. Communication is key, for anything that's going on.
13. Have a nice and sweet tone even if you are in a strange situation , it helps big time.
14. Understand were they are coming from all the time.
15. Never have secrets , even the small one hurts
16. Seconds changes and even 3rd changes have to come into play
17. Take interest in your partners life and events
18. Tell that person you care all the time.
19. You will fight, its normal, just make it work, do whatever it takes.
20. Back down if the person has a point you are not always right, and even then ppl have points of views, and never make them change them, respect the fact they have a pint and listen.
21. If you are wrong , let them know and always say sorry , but only if you truly mean it.
PEOPLE THIS FACTS MAKE A WORLD OF A DIFERENCE. IT MADE SENCE.