The crime of rape occurs whenever a person forces another to do something sexual against that person's will. It's that simple. Remember that:
A person has the right to say no to sex at anytime for any reason.
Rape is never the victim's fault. No one ever asks, wants, or deserves to be raped.
Date or acquaintance rape is all too common.
Women can rape women and men can rape men. Remember what rape is. (Contrary to popular belief, more rapes are committed against men than against women each year.)
Being under the influence of alcohol is never an excuse. If the victim is too drunk to say no, it's still rape. If the perpetrator is too drunk to know what he or she is doing, it's still rape.A large proportion of all rapes are date (or acquaintance) rapes. Reduce your chances of being a victim:
When going out with someone new, don't feel you have to go alone. Go on a group date or meet in a public place.
Socialize with people who share your values and beliefs.
Communicate with your date. Don't send mixed messages.
Be aware and independent on dates. Have options on what you will do, pay your way, provide your own transportation.
Take care of yourself. Don't put yourself in a situation where other people might have to take care of you, because they might not be there.
Be careful about going into someone else's home or inviting them into yours. There are the places most acquaintance rape occurs.
Trust your instincts. If you don't feel comfortable in a situation, leave it.
If things start to get out of hand, leave or protest firmly and loudly.
Don't abuse alcohol and don't date anyone who does.
Remember:
Intoxication is never an excuse for otherwise unacceptable behavior.
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